As a sex therapist, relationship expert, and neuroscientist who studies sex and the brain, I get tons of questions about how to deal with a sex life that no longer sizzles. Hereβs the secret: The biggest issue that stalls a sex life after the honeymoon glow of new...
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What is Female Ejaculation, and Why It’s Good For You
Feb 24, 2020
Buckle up, folks, weβre about to dive into a controversial sex topic: how to squirt during sex. βSquirting,β more accurately known as female ejaculation (and sometimes called βshejaculateβ by the internet), remains one of the more highly debated and controversial...
Yes Masturbation is Healthy | How to Use A Vibrator [VIDEO]
Feb 17, 2020
How to use a vibrator is one of the questions I get most oftenβand most bashfullyβin my work as a sex therapist. I began my career as a psychotherapist, becoming a sex therapist and certified relationship expert when I realized that so many of my clients came to me...
Why Canβt I Orgasm? A Neuroscientist Explains
Feb 10, 2020
In my practice as a certified sex therapist and in my work as a neuroscientist studying pleasure, thereβs one question I hear a lot: Why canβt I orgasm? 6 Possible Reasons You Aren't Able to Orgasm Having a regular stream of orgasms isnβt just about having a...
Sex and Parenthood
Feb 3, 2020
I wrote my book,Β Why Good Sex Matters: Understanding theΒ NeuroscienceΒ of Pleasure for a Smarter, Happier, and More Purpose-Filled Life,Β to highlight theΒ critical importance pleasure plays inΒ promoting ourΒ overall wellbeing.Β Although our sex lives are certainly not the...
How to Have Good Sex, According to a Neuroscientist
Jan 27, 2020
Look anywhere in the media or on the streets of any major city (or suburb or small town, for that matter) and we appear to be wholly focused on pleasure. Invitations to enjoy sex, food, sports, spas, exotic vacations, romantic escapes, and game-ified apps abound, all...